Cool essay from makezine.org titled "more gender more of the time" or possibly "specificity is the spice of life," by dean spade.
I don't entirely agree with everything there, and I know some of y'all won't either. But there's a lot of food for thought packed into a short essay.
At first I thought that the piece was taking the common stance that it's best to avoid labeling sexuality altogether, a stance that I usually argue against by noting that if we don't label ourselves, others will label us. But then along came my favorite bit:
Please don't understand me to be promoting 'non-labeling.' What I love is specific, detailed, stimulating, inventive uses of language to constantly re-inscribe and re-identify body and sex experiences, rather than simplistic terms that shut down conversations about how hot we all really are.
Again I'm not sure I entirely agree with that from a philosophical standpoint, but it made me smile.