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R.I.P., Arthur C. Clarke

I'm sorry to see that Arthur C. Clarke has died, at the age of 90. I'm too muzzyheaded to have... (More...)

Three years

Today's the third anniversary of my father's murder. Been doing more or less okay, though once again haven't been sleeping... (More...)

Death of a soldier

Through roundabout means, this morning I happened across a memorial posting for Major Andrew Olmsted, who was killed in Iraq... (More...)

Memorial service

Kam accompanied me tonight to the Kara memorial service in Palo Alto that I mentioned a few entries back. It... (More...)

Candlelight memorial service, Dec. 6, Palo Alto

There's a grief-support center in Palo Alto called Kara; every year, they have a memorial gathering, "invit[ing] the community to... (More...)

R.I.P., Madeleine L'Engle

As most of you know by now, Madeleine L'Engle has died at age 88. I liked the original Wrinkle in... (More...)

Mothers

This morning, I was half-listening to iTunes on shuffle play again, and one of my two or three favorite pieces... (More...)

Fathers

I recently discovered that the Uncle Bonsai albums are available on CD. They're still not available via the iTunes Store,... (More...)

In memoriam: Helen Hartman, 1908-2007

Uncle Paul called last night to let me know that Grandma had died a little after 6 p.m., Washington time.... (More...)

R.I.P., Kurt Vonnegut

The New York Times reports that Kurt Vonnegut died tonight at age 84. I had no idea until I read... (More...)

Two years

March 7, 2005, was the day my father was murdered, though we didn't find out until the 8th. I thought... (More...)

Bunny

On Saturday, I was gearing up to do some house-cleaning when Twig showed up. She had left her stuff at... (More...)

R.I.P., Robert Anton Wilson

I just learned that Robert Anton Wilson died on Thursday. I knew he'd been in ill health lately, but hadn't... (More...)

Book-shifting day, plus the Chicago Seven trial

This morning, I went over to Pam & Arthur's to help them move furniture and books; they're rearranging a bunch... (More...)

Memoriam

Tomorrow/today (Saturday the 11th) would have been my father's 67th birthday. It's also the 26th anniversary of my mother's death.... (More...)

R.I.P., Jack Williamson

To quote Locus Online: "SF Grand Master Jack Williamson, born 1908, died this afternoon at his home in Portales, New... (More...)

More re John M. Ford

I was sad all day today. Even though I didn't know him. Perhaps because so many people wrote, eloquently, about... (More...)

R.I.P., John M. Ford

Author John M. "Mike" Ford died early this morning or late last night, at the age of 49. Elise Matthesen... (More...)

Birthdays and anniversary

More and more, lately, it seems like I have both happy and sad things to post about on the same... (More...)

R.I.P., Jim Baen

I knew Jim Baen had had a stroke a couple of weeks ago, but I hadn't known until just now... (More...)

Strange Horizons forum still down

In case anyone's been wondering what's up with the SH forum and missed Susan's explanation: Last Friday (9 June), Susan... (More...)

Mother's Day and birthdays and such

Belated happy Mother's Day to all of the mothers reading this! I'm always impressed by y'all. And, more generally, yay... (More...)

R.I.P., Stanislaw Lem

According to the SFWA obituary: Polish science fiction author Stanislaw Lem died in his home city of Krakow on Monday,... (More...)

Yesterday and today

Thank you for all the comments and emails, everyone. Very much appreciated. (I should clarify something about timing: due to... (More...)

One year

Today is the first anniversary of my father's murder. (More...)

R.I.P., Octavia Butler

For those who haven't heard: sf writer Octavia E. Butler died on Saturday, age 58. Here are some relevant links... (More...)

R.I.P., Andreas "G'Kar" Katsulas

Andreas Katsulas, who played G'Kar on Babylon 5, has died of lung cancer at age 59. I knew nothing about... (More...)

R.I.P., Cynthia McQuillin

Just discovered that filksinger-songwriter Cynthia McQuillin died two weeks ago, on January 14, of renal and respiratory failure, at age... (More...)

Long week

Or maybe I mean "weird week." I haven't been sleeping well, but I've been sleeping late. I've been putting in... (More...)

Assorted notes about Peter

The other morning I had a dream in which I was talking with some kind of a counselor, in her... (More...)

R.I.P., John Spencer

Actor John Spencer, who played Leo McGarry on The West Wing, died on Friday of a heart attack, a few... (More...)

R.I.P., Robert Sheckley

Most of you who would care know by now that sf author Robert Sheckley died a week ago. It's been... (More...)

Animals, talking and otherwise

Yesterday, Kam and I visited Coyote Point and then saw the Narnia movie. I'll talk about Narnia in a separate... (More...)

More book-boxing

This morning, after several phone calls that didn't pan out, I wrote a semi-frantic email (intending to send it to... (More...)

Boxing up the books

I've abandoned my original plan to spend this weekend doing a triage pass on Peter's books to get rid of a bunch of them before shipping them to my place; instead, I'm boxing them all up to mail, and I'll sort them at my leisure at home. (More...)

In memoriam

Today would have been my father's 66th birthday. It's also the 25th anniversary of my mother's death. I'm staying home... (More...)

Article about sentencing

Jay has posted about the sentencing hearing. He also linked to a Tacoma News Tribune article about the hearing; nothing... (More...)

Another death

Tonight's email brought news that my former co-worker Patrice O'Neill died of cancer on Saturday. Patrice was great. I was... (More...)

Sentencing hearing

It feels weird and awkward to juxtapose tonight's three entries, on unrelated but important subjects. I'm sorry about that. But... (More...)

How not to call about a foreclosure

A couple of months ago, Jay wrote about (among other things) Peter's house and the trustee's sale. (And why you... (More...)

Trial date

Among the many things I've been meaning to post for the past week or so is the fact that the... (More...)

Persistence of memory

Today was, of course, the fourth anniversary of the September 11th attacks; I saw surprisingly little commentary about that... (More...)

This and that

(Yikes! No wonder the comment-spam levels have dropped precipitously—I broke the comments-display pages for my and Mary Anne's journals a... (More...)

Annual memoriam

My mother, Marcy, would have been 62 years old today. I wrote that linked-to piece sixteen years ago; glancing over... (More...)

In more serious news

WorldCon's been nothing if not distracting. I've managed to go hours at a time without thinking about stuff about my... (More...)

Father's Day

Happy Father's Day to all of you who are fathers. May your children bring you happiness, joy, and the occasional... (More...)

Whatnot

Warning: Long stream-of-consciousness entry impending, fresh out of chronological order. Was just poking through j7y's LJ, which among other things... (More...)

Peter memorial article

The Pierce College student newspaper, the Pioneer, ran a front-page story about Peter, along with a couple of sidebars and... (More...)

How'm I doing?

People have been (quite reasonably) asking how I'm doing lately, and I don't have a good answer. Mostly I say... (More...)

Disjointed

All week, I've been thinking, "Oh, right, that's the thing I was going to post about." But I keep thinking... (More...)

More stuff

The past few days have been kind of a blur, even though very little has been happening. I'm slowly getting... (More...)

R.I.P., Andre Norton

Science fiction writer Andre Norton died this morning. I've been meaning to post for the past couple weeks mentioning that... (More...)

Rose's mustache, and calculating devices

I got D&J's permission, so here's the photo of Rose and her mustache. Moments after I took that photo, Rose... (More...)

Back home

Long entry here, just general updates on the past couple days. Saturday evening before I posted that last entry, I... (More...)

Another update

The continued outpouring of support in comments and email is just about making me cry as I sit here in... (More...)

Thankfulness

Here's some of what I've been thankful for this week: Kam. She's been amazing. Strong and capable, holding me when... (More...)

Flowers/donations

In lieu of flowers, the family would prefer donations to the Pierce College Foundation in the name of Peter Hartman... (More...)

Update

Kam came over this morning, and then came with me to Tacoma. My brother's travel agent took care of the... (More...)

Offline

My father just died. That's all I can say right now. I'll be offline and out of contact indefinitely. If... (More...)

Memorial site expansion

Today was several birthdays: L. Frank Baum would've been 139; I meant to try to get in touch with Sally C., but... (More...)

Happy/sad

This time of year is bittersweet for me. The excitement of WorldCon and another Strange Horizons anniversary is great, and... (More...)

Miscellaneous notes

Today is the 22nd anniversary of my mother's death. Also my father's birthday. And my friend Mikala's; funny, someone just... (More...)

Birth and death

I'm not sure whether it's a notable coincidence or not that Mary Anne's mother's birthday, Jenn's mother's birthday, and my... (More...)

To prepare a face to meet the faces that you meet

I've been meaning to write about the weekend of the 13th and 14th for a week now. On Friday I... (More...)