{"id":10793,"date":"2007-12-12T04:12:18","date_gmt":"2007-12-12T12:12:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kith.org\/journals\/jed\/2007\/12\/12\/10793.html"},"modified":"2007-12-12T04:12:18","modified_gmt":"2007-12-12T12:12:18","slug":"ten-years","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/2007\/12\/12\/ten-years\/","title":{"rendered":"Ten years"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I've been trying to write something coherent about the fact that today (Wednesday) is Mary Anne's and my tenth anniversary.  But it's been a kind of fragmented week, and the words aren't flowing.<\/p>\n<p>I'm sitting here in a darkened living room, listening to Kavya restlessly sleep.  Soon, I suspect she'll wake up, and I'll feed her, and then move her to M's room for the rest of the night, and go to sleep myself.<\/p>\n<p>Been thinking lately about all the travel and long-distanceness that's been involved in M's and my relationship; she started out 45 minutes' drive from my place, then moved to Utah in 1999, and to Chicago in 2002.  Airplanes, phone calls, emails; visits to each other's homes, meeting up at conventions and workshops.<\/p>\n<p>Ten years ago today, who would have guessed that after all these flights here's where we'd land? The paths we take are not the ones we'd planned; who knows where wandering hearts will come to rest?<\/p>\n<p>.&nbsp;.&nbsp;. And that was when Kavya woke up enough to eat a little, and then fell back asleep, so I took her to M's room and then everyone woke up and I changed K's diaper and although she was fairly calm about it, by the end she was wide wide awake.  So I rocked her and sang to her for another half-hour or so, and she finally went back to sleep, and now I'd better go sleep too. So I'm not gonna finish the other ten lines.<\/p>\n<p>But I'll close by saying: Happy anniversary, Mary Anne!  I love you.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I&#8217;ve been trying to write something coherent about the fact that today (Wednesday) is Mary Anne&#8217;s and my tenth anniversary&#8230;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-10793","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10793","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10793"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10793\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10793"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10793"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10793"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}