{"id":13560,"date":"2011-01-14T11:39:00","date_gmt":"2011-01-14T19:39:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kith.org\/journals\/jed\/2011\/01\/14\/13560.html"},"modified":"2020-05-08T17:31:20","modified_gmt":"2020-05-09T00:31:20","slug":"tiny-acorn","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/2011\/01\/14\/tiny-acorn\/","title":{"rendered":"Tiny acorn"},"content":{"rendered":"\r\n<p>It all started with a crush.<\/p>\r\n<p>A pair of them, really.<\/p>\r\n<p>Though I wouldn't have called them that at the time.<\/p>\r\n<p>In eighth grade, the most charismatic and interesting kids I knew were actors. I didn't know them well, but I admired them from afar. There were two in particular: a boy and a girl, who seemed to me to be more or less the king and queen of the school's theatre. I had crushes on both of them, though I didn't realize until years later that it wasn't only the girl who I found attractive.<\/p>\r\n<p>And so in ninth grade, at a new school, I wanted to get involved in theatre. But I knew acting was not for me. And so I signed up for the elective stage tech class.<\/p>\r\n<p>Which turned out to be exactly my cup of tea, and I took stage tech all four years of high school, and went to the Soviet Union because of it. But that's another story.<\/p>\r\n<p>The story I'm here to tell is that when I signed up again in tenth grade, there were these two guys in the stage tech class, David VS and David H, and I hit it off with them, and they introduced me to their social group, known as I-Club.<\/p>\r\n<p>And almost everything in my current life sprang out of that:<\/p>\r\n<ul>\r\n  <li>I followed David VS to Swarthmore, so that's how I met all the Swarthmore people.<\/li>\r\n  <li>Arthur E was in I-Club. After college, we became housemates and close friends, and he suggested that I try technical writing, which is how I ended up in my current career. Arthur also helped me specifically to get my current job, in a slightly roundabout way.<\/li>\r\n  <li>Andrea E was in I-Club, and she introduced me to Sarah L, who years later <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kith.org\/journals\/jed\/2009\/05\/02\/12070.html\">introduced me to Kam<\/a> (and the first time Kam and I met was indirectly via Arthur).<\/li>\r\n  <li>A confluence of many factors led me and Mary Anne to get together, but it probably wouldn't have happened without Arthur, Alex (who I met at Swarthmore), Kam, and Thida (who I met via Dominus, who I met while I was at Swarthmore&mdash;via Ranjit, who doesn't tie into this tapestry but whom I probably wouldn't have gotten back in touch with if we hadn't both been in the Philly area).<\/li>\r\n  <li>I met bunches of folks (including Beth O and Twig and Stephanie) through Kam.<\/li>\r\n  <li>I had been interested in reading and writing science fiction all my life, so some things in that area might have turned out similarly without I-Club (who were not, by and large, big sf fans). For example, I probably would've attended Clarion sooner or later. But I would certainly not have become a <cite>Strange Horizons<\/cite> editor if not for Mary Anne. And I probably wouldn't have gone to WisCon or Potlatch, and I wouldn't have been in various writing workshops, and I thus most likely wouldn't know most of my friends in the sf world.<\/li>\r\n  <li>If not for the Swarthmore friends scattered all around the country, I probably wouldn't have embarked on my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kith.org\/logos\/wander\/\">wanderjahr<\/a>, probably wouldn't have posted my father's name on the web, and thus probably wouldn't have ever met <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kith.org\/journals\/jed\/2007\/08\/08\/3966.html\">Gabrielle<\/a>.<\/li>\r\n<\/ul>\r\n<p>I'm making it all sound kind of simple and linear, and it's not. There were lots of complicated factors that went into all of these things. There was no single <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Jonbar_Hinge\">Jonbar Hinge<\/a> from which all else follows; it was a web of interconnected influences and subtle pulls. A tapestry, not a string.<\/p>\r\n<p>And I do still know people who I knew before eighth grade: family and a couple of friends.<\/p>\r\n<p>And it's entirely possible that the webs are interconnected enough that some of the things I've done and people I've met were fairly inevitable, regardless of what path I was on.<\/p>\r\n<p>Still, it seems likely that if I hadn't had those theatre crushes in eighth grade, my life would be very different now.<\/p>\r\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It all started with a crush. A pair of them, really. 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