{"id":14146,"date":"2012-08-13T05:41:40","date_gmt":"2012-08-13T12:41:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kith.org\/journals\/jed\/2012\/08\/13\/14146.html"},"modified":"2012-08-13T05:41:40","modified_gmt":"2012-08-13T12:41:40","slug":"mary-anne-on-graceful-exits","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/2012\/08\/13\/mary-anne-on-graceful-exits\/","title":{"rendered":"Mary Anne on graceful exits"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Good stuff from Mary Anne about <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mamohanraj.com\/journal\/show-entry.php?Entry_ID=6858\">how to leave room for a polite no<\/a> when flirting or otherwise expressing interest in someone.<\/p>\n<p>It's all stuff that I theoretically know, but I have unfortunately behaved badly in this regard a couple of times over the years. Unintentionally, but that doesn't make it better or easier for the other person.<\/p>\n<p>I especially like M's side note saying that it's &ldquo;easier to flirt lightly if you do it early&rdquo; and the rest of that paragraph.<\/p>\n<p>There is lots more I'd like to say on these subjects, but am only semi-awake, and really ought to go start the day. But I wish that I had read this entry of M's back in high school.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Good stuff from Mary Anne about how to leave room for a polite no when flirting or otherwise expressing interest&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[11,22,50,5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14146","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-improving-society","category-relationships","category-sex","category-socializing"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14146","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14146"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14146\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}