{"id":14257,"date":"2012-11-02T16:56:20","date_gmt":"2012-11-02T23:56:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kith.org\/journals\/jed\/2012\/11\/02\/14257.html"},"modified":"2012-11-02T16:56:20","modified_gmt":"2012-11-02T23:56:20","slug":"two-unusual-and-good-marriage","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/2012\/11\/02\/two-unusual-and-good-marriage\/","title":{"rendered":"Two unusual and good marriage-equality ads from Maine"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>In the states where marriage equality is on the ballot this year, NOM and its local surrogates have launched their usual late-in-campaign barrage of lying homophobic ads veiled in a veneer of reasonableness.<\/p>\n<p>One of their main tactics is to say (paraphrased) &ldquo;If gay marriage is legalized, <em>children will be taught it in school<\/em>.&rdquo; It sounds so scary! I can imagine thousands of ordinary straight parents thinking &ldquo;I don't have anything against gays, but I don't want the schools turning my kids gay!&rdquo;<\/p>\n<p>I, personally, think that it's a good idea for schools to teach kids about reality. If in some context a school is teaching students about marriage, and they're in a state where you can get married to someone you love regardless of their gender, then yes, of course the school should mention that marriage is not limited to opposite-sex couples. You'd rather that our schools lie to our kids? After all, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.kith.org\/journals\/jed\/2010\/08\/09\/12720.html\">there's nothing wrong with being gay<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But I recognize that my above approach is not a good one for convincing those concerned straight parents. Fortunately, the pro-marriage-equality people in Maine are way better at this than I am, and they've produced this <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=PXSUYKgoOSg\">awesome 30-second ad<\/a> addressing the issue:<\/p>\n<p><iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube-nocookie.com\/embed\/PXSUYKgoOSg\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>It features a Maine teacher who's also a parent, who says (among other things):<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>Like most kids today, our children already know people who are gay or lesbian. [...] What we do in a school is no substitute for what happens at home. [...] No law is going to change the core values we teach our kids here at home.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Good stuff. I really hope that this approach resonates with its target audience, and works to counter the scaremongering from NOM.<\/p>\n<p>The <a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/watch?v=p0VBgAxLiQ8\">other Maine video<\/a> I wanted to mention is on a different topic: it's a teenager talking about his moms:<\/p>\n<p><iframe width=\"560\" height=\"315\" src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube-nocookie.com\/embed\/p0VBgAxLiQ8\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The thing that I find unusual (in a good way) about this one is that it's an inversion of a common marriage-equality-ad approach: instead of a straight couple saying &ldquo;I want my gay daughter [or son, but usually daughter] to have a marriage like ours,&rdquo; it's a straight teen saying that when he gets married to a woman, he hopes to have a marriage like that of his moms. I don't know whether that'll resonate with the target audience, but I really like it&mdash;holding up a same-sex couple as the role models for straight people to emulate is a nice twist.<\/p>\n<p>If you like these ads, it's not too late to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mainersunited.org\">donate to Mainers United for Marriage<\/a>. I'm really hoping that in a few days, Maine (and Washington and Maryland) will join the states that have marriage equality.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the states where marriage equality is on the ballot this year, NOM and its local surrogates have launched their&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[120],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14257","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-samesex-marriage"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14257","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14257"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14257\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14257"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14257"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14257"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}