{"id":14994,"date":"2014-11-07T12:31:40","date_gmt":"2014-11-07T20:31:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kith.org\/journals\/jed\/2014\/11\/07\/14994.html"},"modified":"2014-11-07T12:31:40","modified_gmt":"2014-11-07T20:31:40","slug":"state-of-the-jed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/2014\/11\/07\/state-of-the-jed\/","title":{"rendered":"State of the Jed"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I meant to write a bunch of long-delayed blog entries while on vacation last week, but it somehow never happened, so there was a nearly three-week gap in posts here.<\/p>\n<p>Some general life updates:<\/p>\n<p>After a long run of stress and travel and illness, things are finally settling down. There was a couple of months of stress about Sara's terminal illness, and then she died, and then I spent two weeks in the UK (attending WorldCon and then touristing); and then when I got home, I spent six weeks coughing. Then there was a bunch of work stuff going on, then I spent a week in Chicago visiting Mary Anne et alia. So this past week was the first week in a long time when I've been home and healthy and not super-stressed. I even biked to work a couple days, for the first time in months. (I've walked to work a few times lately, but biking tends to exacerbate my coughs, so I was avoiding it until the cough was gone.)<\/p>\n<p>I had one glorious shining moment at work on the Friday afternoon before vacation when the number of urgent documentation reviews I needed to do dropped from three to zero, and when I noticed that my group, for the first time ever, has at least one writer assigned to every significant area that we work on. It's never <em>enough<\/em> writers, but it's closer to enough than it's ever been. Oh, and I'm officially the team lead now. I could probably become a manager if I wanted to, but I've been assiduously avoiding that for about twenty years now.<\/p>\n<p>This week, there've been a couple of frustrating developments at work that have made me less optimistic\/cheerful. But even so, I think overall the group is in a pretty good place.<\/p>\n<p>And I'm more able to cope with life in general than I was for a while there. Sara's illness and death hit me hard, but I'm on a little more of an even keel now.<\/p>\n<p>The week in Chicago was mostly really good. I'm sorry not to have seen most of y'all Chicagoans; I ended up mostly not leaving Mary Anne's place. I made a fair bit of novel progress, I got some time with Mary Anne and hung out with Kat a bit, I got some time with the kids. I also spent on the order of eight hours over the course of the week doing urgent day-job stuff (which wouldn't have been so urgent if I hadn't been at least a week behind on it), involving the new Terms of Service for our APIs; but that eventually worked out, and I took one less vacation day as a result.<\/p>\n<p>I played the Robot Turtles intro-to-programming-concepts boardgame with the kids; more observations about that another time. Anand doesn't do boardgames, but the other three enjoyed it. I also played various Kindle and iPad games with them, and showed Kavi a couple of art apps that she seemed to really like (the Paper app and the GoldieBlox and the Movie Machine app), and helped take the kids trick-or-treating in the snow, and just generally hung out.<\/p>\n<p>Back home, Kam and I have been watching <cite>Dr Who<\/cite>, which we're getting less and less happy with despite being lifelong fans, and <cite>Agents of SHIELD<\/cite>, which is a whole lot better than the first season, and <cite><a href=\"http:\/\/www.kith.org\/journals\/jed\/2013\/11\/26\/14762.html\">Day Break<\/a><\/cite>. She hasn't seen that last one before; I have, but I'm enjoying the rewatch quite a bit. It's still among my top ten favorite TV series of all time. ...Oh, and I've been watching and enjoying <cite>Jane the Virgin<\/cite>.<\/p>\n<p>I'm continuing to work on my novel every day. I had hoped to get the third draft (suitable for finally showing to more than one or two people) done by the end of October, but that didn't happen; I'm now aiming for the end of November. I'm not sure whether that'll happen, but it's plausible. I've been checking off a whole lot of to-do items.<\/p>\n<p>During vacation week, I stayed almost completely off of Facebook, because it was starting to bother me that I was spending on the order of several hours a day on FB. That went fairly well, though I was tempted several times to open up FB to post that I was still staying off FB. I did post two or three quick tidbits, but each time didn't spend more than a few minutes looking at others' posts. This past week, I'm back on FB, but in a more limited way than usual; I'm only reading about 10%-25% of the posts in my notifications, rather than my usual insistence on reading 90+%. Unfortunately, in the past couple of days, links among that 10% have led me to pages that've resulted in literally hours of reading. But I continue to hope I can keep my FB time down to, oh, half an hour to an hour a day.<\/p>\n<p>(To be clear: I still really like the lightweight-way-to-stay-in-touch-with-friends aspect of FB, and I still like most of what my friends post there. It's just that I have other things that I want to focus more on.)<\/p>\n<p>Let's see, what else? A few assorted last tidbits before I end this entry: My Uncle Dobe just sent me a box full of old family papers; it'll be fun and interesting sorting through those. The weather here has been mostly very pleasant, although it feels weird to be enjoying that when it's part of the super-extreme awful drought that we're still immersed in. I don't like how early it's getting dark, but I realize many of y'all live north of me and therefore have it worse. I'm still having anxiety issues, and still putting off trying to address them. My movie-watching has slowed way down, but I'm still very close to being done rewatching all my Blu-rays. I've been reading a fair bit: Sturgeon stories, Zilpha Keatley Snyder, <cite>Babel-17<\/cite>, a bit of Mallory Ortberg's new book, etc. I contacted someone on OKCupid, but haven't heard back. I continue, as always, to be way behind on email; I'm sorry about that. I bought a burr grinder to facilitate Kam having good coffee when she stays over. I'm taking very small steps toward a new publishing project. And so on.<\/p>\n<p>So I guess all in all, things are pretty good, for the first time in quite a while.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I meant to write a bunch of long-delayed blog entries while on vacation last week, but it somehow never happened,&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[14,29,34,8,21],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14994","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-death","category-life-updates","category-travel","category-work","category-writing"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14994","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/5"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14994"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14994\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14994"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14994"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.kith.org\/jed\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14994"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}