Two terms
Had a great dinner with Debbie N last night in SF, including discussion of a wide range of topics.
Over the course of the evening, she introduced me to two words I hadn't seen before; somehow these seem more appropriate for my main blog than for my word blog, so I'm gonna post 'em here.
First: integry: "the kind of work women do in keeping communities together," as Joanna Russ puts it, as cited by Liz H. Liz further quotes Russ as adding: "the sort of thing Rosalind Coward has called 'social facilitation.'" Russ got the term from Jesse Bernard, who adapted it from Kenneth Boulding; if I'm understanding Liz's entry right, Boulding used it to talk about the work of community-building in general, and Bernard focused it specifically on the work women do.
While I was trying to remember the word just now, I happened across a semi-related paper from 2002: "Community Effort in Online Groups: Who Does the Work and Why?" (PDF), by Brian Butler, Lee Sproull, Sara Kiesler, and Robert Kraut, of assorted universities. I've only glanced over the paper, but it looks interesting. There appears to be no discussion of gender beyond a mention in passing that "there was no significant demographic difference across the respondent subsamples." (When looking at gender, income, etc.)
I'm tempted to say that the work of online community building is more visible as work, more explicitly work, than the work of in-person community building, but I'm not sure about that. Bears further thought.
In a separate part of the conversation, Debbie and I were talking about the kinds of work and the kinds of workers that/who are invisible in the sense that most of us don't even know those jobs exist. I didn't realize it at the time, but I think that's connected in some interesting ways to the kinds of work that we see but don't recognize as work.
The other word Debbie taught me was intersubjectivity. I got the impression that, loosely, it had to do with recognizing another person as being a subject rather than an object, but I may've misunderstood. The Wikipedia article's definitions focus on somewhat different aspects; for example, one definition refers to the "shared meanings constructed by people in their interactions with each other and used as an everyday resource to interpret the meaning of elements of social and cultural life." I get the impression that the term is used somewhat differently in other fields, though, and it sounds like there is a thread through some of the uses having to do with recognizing the subjective meanings and experiences of others; if any of y'all know more about that, might be worth expanding the Wikipedia article.
(Later in the Wikipedia article, it uses the word "eualent," which sounded neat, but on further investigation I suspect it's a typo.)