GCF

In Windows, there's a type of error called a General Protection Fault, also known as GPF. I personally sometimes experience a different type of error: the GCF, or General Coping Failure. Today's GCF had the usual symptom: a desire to curl up into a ball and hide, and let someone else do all the coping for a while. Being a grownup has many advantages, but with great power comes great responsibility, as they say, and sometimes it's easier to let someone else be the grownup.

Anyway, eventually the combination of sunshine, food, Kam, and a couple episodes of Alias resulted in a more or less full recovery.

The sunshine, sadly, had the side effect of sunburning both my legs. You'd think I would know better by now. I'm applying lots of aloe vera gel.

While I was sitting in the sun, I read the rest of Marjane Satrapi's Persepolis, which is quite good, though pretty depressing. Definitely recommended.

Unrelatedly: thanks to those who've pointed out the various recent links to the SH "Stories We See Too Often" page. I gather it appeared in Making Light the other day, then BoingBoing, and now Neil Gaiman's blog. I'm always pleased when people like that page, but also a little embarrassed, 'cause I feel like I should make clearer that it's not meant to be a canonical list of Bad Stories, just a list of stories we see a lot of. And authors have started paying attention to it, so we see a lot less of most of those stories than we used to, so in a sense it's a sort of self-negating list.

We do occasionally get stories with cover letters that say "I know this plot is on your stories-we-see-too-often list, but this version of it isn't the same as the ones you see all the time." Sometimes that turns out to be true; sometimes it doesn't.

This paragraph would be where I would put a pithy summing-up and conclusion, both witty and profound, if only I had such a thing. Instead, it'll just be where I say good night and head off to bed. Tomorrow, they tell me, is another day; I hope they're right.

5 Responses to “GCF”

  1. Tempest

    If you read the comments on Gaiman’s LJ feed you will see writers plotting to send you stories from the list. They seem to think it is a ‘forbidden’ list, and you know how people feel about forbidden things.

    http://www.livejournal.com/users/officialgaiman/116032.html

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  2. Michael

    Sunburn suggestion: emu oil. It’s like magic for sunburned skin, much better than any other product I’ve tried. The stuff is freakishly expensive, and worth it.

    GCF: I like your description, and sympathize. People are meant to live in more tightly-knit communities, which would reduce the incidence of GCFs. Not only would those suffering from a GCF receive more immediate attention, but I think getting wrapped up in helping others can often head off an imminent GCF in oneself.

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  3. Michael

    Follow-up suggestion: squeeze an emu. The simple act of tracking one down, catching it, and squeezing it gently can be a great restorative. Plus, you can then treat your sunburn.

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  4. Emu

    Hey! Hands off, buster. I only want to be squeezed by a professional.

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  5. Jed

    🙂 I hasten to assure any emus in the audience that all emu-squeezing under my jurisdiction will be strictly consensual.

    Re GCFs: I think part of it for me, at least in this particular case, was social overload; I can only do so much socializing before I shut down, and socializing takes a lot of energy for me (especially when I’m low on energy for other reasons). So although tight-knit communities can be good, having space to oneself can also be good—something that my employers don’t seem to recognize, so I’ve kind of got a bee in my bonnet about it at the moment.

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