Archive for Personal
I’ve been thinking lately about my tendencies to keep stuff. (This post is just recording some things I’ve been thinking about, and adding some musings as I go. I’m not looking for advice here.) I have a lot of stuff. A lot of it is stuff that I love and am very happy to have; […]
I have some thoughts that I feel like are connected to each other, but they’re not quite cohering into an essay. So here are some not-quite-cohering thoughts. (Content warning for descriptions of various forms of exoticizing/Othering.) Mary Anne wrote an interesting post recently about (among other things) whether non–Sri Lankans are reading the Sri Lankan […]
Our flight arrives at the gate over an hour late. Flight attendant asks us to let people through who have tight connections. As soon as the seatbelt lights go off, 3/4 of the passengers stand up and clog the aisle. Two fairly small passengers try to push through, a white woman and a black woman. […]
I’ve been thinking about forgiveness recently. I don’t have any clear or firm conclusions; this post is just some assorted thoughts. Wikipedia says: Forgiveness is the intentional and voluntary process by which a victim undergoes a change in feelings and attitude regarding an offense, lets go of negative emotions such as vengefulness, with an increased […]
My 9th-grade English teacher, Mr. Eymil, gave us a surprise in-class writing assignment one day in 1983. He told us...
Here's the short version: I've been having a hard time with anxiety for a long time. A previous attempt at...
I was talking on the phone the other day, and it occurred to me that it's possible that nobody knows...
I have no idea whether the new movie The Song is worth seeing, but I was mildly intrigued by the...
There's this thing going around on Facebook, where you post some number of pieces of information about yourself that other...
A friend asked on Facebook what were the best Halloween costumes we'd worn. I started to reply there, but this...
(Potentially triggery for assault stuff.) The following was originally in the middle of my previous entry, about my brief visit...
This has been a rough week for several of my friends, for a variety of reasons. It's been a rough...